What's in a name?

For several years I had a job that required me to "man the registration desk" as attendees arrived for technical conferences. We would ask for the attendee's "Last Name," and then their "First Name." Sounds simple, right? Depending upon their native country our straight-forward request were sometimes met with a quizzical look or a name that didn't appear on our list. We soon figured out that there's a lot more to a "First Name" and "Last Name."

Traditionally, in the US, a woman marries a man and takes his last name. She may use her maiden name as a middle name or hyphenate it with her husband's, but his name is the "Last Name." They have children and the children take on the same last name as the father. Now everyone in the family has the same last name.

Well, in Costa Rica, a person's "full name" will consist of their unique "First Name," followed by their FATHER's "family name," and then the MOTHER's "family name." Take, for example, Maria Prince Calvo. Prince reflects her father's family name and Calvo reflects her mother's. She now marries John Gonzales Bustamonte. There is no change to her name. Along comes a child. They call her "Mary." Her full name is now Mary Gonzales (father's family name) Prince (mother's family name). In common usage you might also see "Mary" signing her name as Mary Gonzales S. without writing out the third name. It's different than "our way," but seems to add a bit more family history to a person's name.